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MrC and the Bachelor Party

October 13, 2014 by MrsC | Patricia Cuyugan 11 Comments

Last Saturday after a very long day, the kiddo and I dropped MrC off at a nearby McDonalds so that his high school buddies could pick him up on their way to an out of town bachelor party. Imagine that, a bachelor party, and an out of town one! I had no qualms about him going because I knew all the guys that he would be hanging out with, and their wives and girlfriends, too. These were friends that we grew up with, and I am actually really excited that another one of them is finally tying the knot. It’ll be fun having more married couples to hang out with!

MrC with the boys at our wedding
MrC with the boys at our wedding

 

So anyway, while MrC was off with the boys, I figured I would get a bit of writing done. I was gonna be home alone with a sleeping child on a Saturday, after all. So I picked up a coffee float at the drive through on our way home, tucked the kid in, and proceeded to work. I got some drafts out, plus a blog post. At close to midnight, I decided I should try to get some sleep. I knew I would be taking the kiddo to football in the morning, and I refused to be a zombie for that.

 

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@mcdo_ph #Coffee Float-ing on a Saturday night coz I have lotsa writing to do. MrC is off to an out of town bachelor party and the little boy is about to sleep. Work mode, on! #WAHMLife #NoGimikForMe

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Thing is, I couldn’t sleep. And, ironically, I found myself missing things that I would normally be complaining about. The bed suddenly seemed so spacious with just the kid and I. Normally I’d be cranky in the morning because I wouldn’t get much space to myself. My blanket was on, nice and snug. There wasn’t anyone at the other end, rolling himself into it like a piece of tuna in the middle of sushi, pulling it away from me. The room was cold and quiet, with no annoying teeth grinding or snoring. It was a completely ideal setup for sleeping but I just couldn’t sleep. 

Siksik in bed at Taal Vista Hotel during our anniversary last year
Siksik in bed at Taal Vista Hotel during our anniversary last year

 

I guess that MrC’s Saturday sleepover served as life’s little reminder that you don’t know what you’ve got til it’s gone. Lucky for me, it wasn’t really gone. In fact, less than 12 hours after we had dropped him off, MrC showed up at our front door just in time to greet everyone good morning. He was home a lot earlier than we had expected, and it was a really pleasant surprise. Guess he must have missed us, too.

Filed Under: Marriage Tagged With: Family, Marriage, Married Life

On Acceptance and Rejection

September 29, 2014 by MrsC | Patricia Cuyugan 26 Comments

One of my fears as a mom is that my son might find himself rejected or disliked by other kids. It isn’t because I feel that my child is unlikable. It’s more because he is an only child, and for a long time he has been more comfortable interacting with adults than with other kids. I’m lucky with this kid, though. He’s friendly, outgoing and adaptable. Over the time he’s spent in school he has managed to make a lot of friends. We both have, actually, as I have also started enjoying my time chatting with the ladies these kids call mommy. 

Who wouldn't want to hang out with this cool guy?
Who wouldn’t want to hang out with this cool guy?

 

Worrying about your child being rejected is normal for any parent, I think. It was something that I was preparing myself for, in case we had to deal with it. What I wasn’t expecting was the possibility of my child being on the other side of the situation. I didn’t realize that it was possible for other kids to feel rejected by my son. Not intentionally, of course. Kids will choose to hang out with the ones they feel are fun to be around, and not with the intention of leaving others out. But well, in forming these little groups, someone may inevitably be left out.

Lola was one of his best friends growing up
Lola was one of his best friends growing up

 

And again, I feel I am lucky with this one. He didn’t realize at first that he was unknowingly alienating another kid. Once we talked to him about it, though, and explained that the other child felt sad about not being included in their play group, he immediately decided to adjust. In fact, in his list of things to do for the week, he even added an extra space for that kid’s name on his playdate invite list. I am lucky with this one because he is friendly, outgoing and adaptable. He is understanding and compassionate, too. And so are the kids that he chooses to have around him in his circle of friends. I’m happy that he chose wisely, and I’m happy that they also have chosen to be his friend.

Have you had any issues on acceptance and rejection with your children? I’d love to read your stories.

Filed Under: House Cuyugan, Motherhood Tagged With: Acceptance, Friendship, Kids, Motherhood, Rejection

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September 10, 2014 by MrsC | Patricia Cuyugan Leave a Comment

3 years today!

Filed Under: Marriage Tagged With: Anniversary, Love, Marriage

Homework, Then and Now #MotherhoodMonday

August 25, 2014 by MrsC | Patricia Cuyugan 21 Comments

The little boy and I are just about done with the first term of this school year. As I’d expected, the third grade is a lot more challenging than last year was, and there’s a lot more work that needs to be done, too. I can’t help but compare how things were during my time as a student with my son’s, after all, he is going to the same school that I went to. I’m also the one tutoring him and helping him with his homework, so I see exactly how fast their learning pace is, and how advance their lessons seem to be.

At the same time, things are also easier on the children now as compared to before, particularly when technology is factored in. I remember having to manually sift through thick, dusty library books all the way til college, just to be able to gather information I needed for reports and projects. Now, the kids have the internet and awesome search engines at their fingertips. Back then, even filling out the bibliography pages of reports was a complicated procedure. Now, tools like cite.com make it so quick and easy to create citations. Oh if only we had these things back when I was in school!

 

As a parent, I still can’t help but worry sometimes that the curriculum for the school year may be too tough for my 8-year old to handle. And I completely sympathize with other parents who feel that way. I often see them voicing their concerns out in our parents association Facebook group. I’d like to think, though, that these little guys have brains that are a bit more advance than ours were at that age. And I really am pleasantly surprised when I see my son learning more and doing more. Sure, it’s difficult for me to tutor him because I find the topics quite advanced for a third grader. But that’s me. Since he is more than able to keep up in class, I guess there really is no cause to complain. Maybe I’m the one who needs to adjust.

Parents, do you tutor your children? Do you feel that the things they learn at their age are a lot more difficult than what you had to study at that grade level? 

Filed Under: Motherhood Tagged With: Homework, Kids, Motherhood, Parenting

7 Ways to Manage A Fever #SundaySeven

August 17, 2014 by MrsC | Patricia Cuyugan 13 Comments

My Instagram feed will tell you that I’ve been playing Nurse Mommy to Little MrC since the middle of last week. It’s tiring, especially when you have to wake up at 2am to give your kid antibiotics, or when his temperature spikes so high that you have to constantly give him a sponge bath. We’re talking above 40-degree fever temps here.

It’s times like these when I’m glad I grew up with a doctor in the house. Having a physician for a father means that I am quick to respond when anyone around me is sick. I usually know what to do, and also am able to identify symptoms and give my unprofessional but often correct diagnoses. In fact, I knew right away that I had appendicitis that fateful morning when I started to feel abdominal pain. A couple of hours later, my dad confirmed my self-diagnosis to be correct and I was in the hospital by that same afternoon. These little instincts of mine come in extra handy now that I have a husband and son who seem to constantly get sick on me. It’s one or the other, but thankfully never both.

Because high fevers can lead to other things like dehydration, I really pay close attention no matter how minor the sickness may be. I’ve also learned over time that there are many old wives tales about how to manage a fever, and from what I grew up with, I know that a lot of them are not true or don’t really help at all. So, here’s my list of things that you can do to manage a fever. These are tried and true, and have never failed me.

7 Ways to Manage a Fever

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This photo is from an old post on World Moms Blog about the time when I was the one who got sick!

 

1. Hydrate. 

Fruit shakes (like this watermelon one from Pico de Loro) and juices are great for hydration and for an added dose of vitamins.

My kid often ends up with a fever because he is dehydrated. He tends to sweat a lot, and an afternoon of running around the playground usually causes him to overheat. This is why I make sure that he drinks a lot whenever his temperature is higher than normal. I’m lucky that he doesn’t mind when I ask him to guzzle down glasses of water at a time. Fresh fruit juice works, too, especially those made from fruits that are high in Vitamin C like pineapples and oranges. If getting your kid to hydrate is a problem, you can try feeding him or her some soup or even a popsicle.

 

2. Keep your room cool.

How cute is this vintage fan? Saw this in one of the heritage houses at Las Casas.

Why do you need to keep your room cool? Well, for starters, it’s a lot more comfortable to be feverish in a cold room than it is in a hot one. The thing with fevers, really, is that you just have to ride them out. This being so, you need to do whatever you can to make sure that your patient is comfortable. Keeping your room cool also helps to lower feverish temperatures faster.

 

3. A quick shower or a sponge bath helps.

Yes, bath time can be fun (especially bubble baths at Acacia Hotel), and super duper helpful in managing a fever!

I know, it sounds like torture especially when your fever is so high that it gives you chills. But believe me, it works. Just a quick 15-minute cold shower or a sponge bath using cold water (I use cold water mixed with alcohol) will do wonders in bringing down a fever. I do this with Big and Little MrC whenever they have a fever, and while I do get a lot of frowns and groans from them, they really do thank me after.

 

4. My winning combo: Biogesic + Kool Fever.

I have to tell you, ever since we started using Kool Fever, feverish nights have become easier to bear. I honestly have no idea what the stinky gel on that fever patch is made of, but it can really draw out heat like magic. I also swear by paracetamol as my fever medication of choice, and Biogesic is my brand of choice. Sometimes MrC and I go for generic brands when we can’t get our hands on Biogesic. For the kiddo, it’s Biogesic as our first choice, followed by Calpol, then Tempra.

 

5. Do not, and I mean DO NOT bundle up.

Let that kili kili out!

It can be tempting to bundle up when you have a fever. I know that it’s not easy watching your child shiver in thin clothes and only a thin blanket in a really cold room after an icy sponge bath. I know your lola probably told you not to take a bath and to keep yourself as warm as you can when you are feverish. But please, don’t do it. Bundling up traps heat, and with a fever you want to release heat. So please, if you want the fever to go away faster, ditch the blanket, wear thin clothing and DO NOT bundle up. 

 

6. Sleep works wonders.

Being sick is your body’s way of telling you to slow down and rest. Resting gives your body the opportunity to fight all the nasty bugs that are causing the fever. When any one of us is sick, we really stay in bed all day and try to get as much sleep and rest as possible. We literally only get up to eat and go to the bathroom.

 

7. Don’t panic.

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Finally, stay calm. Pay close attention to your patient, take their temperature often and take note if this is rising or dropping. Sweating is good, because it means that the fever is breaking. So this is something you should look out for. Rashes usually mean bad news. Different symptoms mean different things, and this is why you need to be really observant. Presence of mind is important so that you can make the right decisions and remember to give medicines on time. When things feel too tough to handle, you can (and should) call your doctor.

And with that, I’m off to give the little guy another dose of antibiotics. 

What are your fever-busting tips? 

Filed Under: Motherhood Tagged With: 7 Ways to Manage A Fever, Fever, Fever Management, How to Cure Fever

He’s 8!

April 15, 2014 by MrsC | Patricia Cuyugan 22 Comments

I still can’t believe that my little boy is already 8. We celebrated with the family last Friday, and since it was his special day, Little MrC got to choose where we would have lunch and dinner. For lunch, he chose one of our super favorites, Omakase. For dinner, it was Project Pie.

Before heading out to dinner, MrC gave our birthday gift to the kiddo. He asked for binoculars, and MrC was able to find a nice National Geographic one at Hobbes and Landes. 

I think the binoculars make him look like Wall-E

At Project Pie, I was initially overwhelmed because it was our first time there and there were so many options! It takes me a while to order because I can never decide what it is I want, so I was feeling kind of pressured in line when it was time to build my pie. Yes, I take these things seriously. Fortunately, I did good with my pizza, which had red sauce, mozzarella and Gorgonzola cheeses, prosciutto, fresh mushrooms and a sprinkle of Parmesan on top.

Pizza monsters

I think the little guy and MrC put red sauce, tomatoes, mushrooms, pineapple, pepperoni, meatballs, bacon, mozzarella and Parmesan on our second pizza. I recently discovered that I’m not a fan of pizza that’s loaded with toppings, so I only had a couple of bites of this one.

Project Pie!

I, of course, tried everyone’s creations, and among all the pizzas our family made that night, my favorite was the one built my my sister’s boyfriend, Koko. He chose the #6, which has grilled chicken, sliced red onion, cilantro, mozzarella, Gorgonzola and barbecue sauce, with additional bacon. I am definitely ordering this next time, but without the cilantro (I don’t like cilantro!), and with prosciutto instead of bacon. Yum.

After dinner, and before bed, we sang Happy Birthday and had some cake at home. I am so, so proud of my friend, Mina, for decorating this amazing Regular Show cake! She works at Daisee’s Bakeshop in Las Pinas, and they make really nice custom cakes that taste good and are super affordable. I super duper, highly recommend them! 

Spot Mordecai, Rigby, and Lola who was having too much fun

Time really does go by so quickly! Imagine, MrC and I have been parents for 8 years. What an adventure it has been so far, and for sure, it’s gonna keep getting even more exciting as the years go by.

Happy birthday, big boy! We love you!

Filed Under: Motherhood Tagged With: Daisee's Bakeshop Las Pinas, Project Pie Alabang

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