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Homework, Then and Now #MotherhoodMonday

August 25, 2014 by MrsC | Patricia Cuyugan 21 Comments

The little boy and I are just about done with the first term of this school year. As I’d expected, the third grade is a lot more challenging than last year was, and there’s a lot more work that needs to be done, too. I can’t help but compare how things were during my time as a student with my son’s, after all, he is going to the same school that I went to. I’m also the one tutoring him and helping him with his homework, so I see exactly how fast their learning pace is, and how advance their lessons seem to be.

At the same time, things are also easier on the children now as compared to before, particularly when technology is factored in. I remember having to manually sift through thick, dusty library books all the way til college, just to be able to gather information I needed for reports and projects. Now, the kids have the internet and awesome search engines at their fingertips. Back then, even filling out the bibliography pages of reports was a complicated procedure. Now, tools like cite.com make it so quick and easy to create citations. Oh if only we had these things back when I was in school!

 

As a parent, I still can’t help but worry sometimes that the curriculum for the school year may be too tough for my 8-year old to handle. And I completely sympathize with other parents who feel that way. I often see them voicing their concerns out in our parents association Facebook group. I’d like to think, though, that these little guys have brains that are a bit more advance than ours were at that age. And I really am pleasantly surprised when I see my son learning more and doing more. Sure, it’s difficult for me to tutor him because I find the topics quite advanced for a third grader. But that’s me. Since he is more than able to keep up in class, I guess there really is no cause to complain. Maybe I’m the one who needs to adjust.

Parents, do you tutor your children? Do you feel that the things they learn at their age are a lot more difficult than what you had to study at that grade level? 

Filed Under: Motherhood Tagged With: Homework, Kids, Motherhood, Parenting

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  1. Janice / The Roller Coaster Ride says

    August 27, 2014 at 6:43 pm

    School is definitely harder for kids these days in terms of them learning more at a younger age. But lucky for them, technology really does help a lot. I’m just happy I don’t have to tutor much anymore. Hehehe. I have a few more years before Ziggy goes to formal school. ๐Ÿ™‚

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    • MrsC | Patricia Cuyugan says

      August 29, 2014 at 9:43 am

      Hehe ako mga 2-3 more years, and then I think Tristan will be able to handle it himself na. ๐Ÿ™‚

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  2. Aisha Kristine Chong says

    August 27, 2014 at 2:00 pm

    I would have to agree – there are so many available things for education now than how it was way back – if only we had them before, lol!

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    • MrsC | Patricia Cuyugan says

      August 29, 2014 at 9:43 am

      Would have made things a lot easier, right? ๐Ÿ™‚

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  3. Viviene says

    August 26, 2014 at 2:44 pm

    I often hear my friends say that. I guess schools have raised the bar but not too high that children won’t be able to cope. =) Relax! Hihi.. =)

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    • MrsC | Patricia Cuyugan says

      August 29, 2014 at 9:44 am

      Haha! Exam week is done, so I’m no longer uptight. I agree with you, though. I don’t think that schools would up the game if they didn’t think that kids could keep up.

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  4. Manu Kalia says

    August 26, 2014 at 12:08 pm

    I love teaching my son during homework and giving cheer to what they do.

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    • MrsC | Patricia Cuyugan says

      August 29, 2014 at 9:44 am

      I think they need that encouragement from us. Thanks for the reminder!

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  5. Millie says

    August 26, 2014 at 8:31 am

    Well, you know I am homeschooling my kids, and surprisingly, some of the topics are too advanced for their level. Both Kinder, and are already learning Roman Numerals! If I’m not mistaken, I’ve learned that 1st grade, I think. I cannot remember anymore! hehe.. But yes, I am surprised with the kids of today, they can easily adapt. Which I think, is good for them too. ๐Ÿ™‚

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  6. Fernando Lachica says

    August 26, 2014 at 12:19 am

    Parents, brothers and sisters must have a positive attitude to complete the homework, so as to instill self-confidence rather than dependent.

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    • MrsC | Patricia Cuyugan says

      August 26, 2014 at 8:30 am

      That’s true. What matters is that you teach the kids to do what they need to do and learn to do it well.

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  7. Graceful Mist says

    August 25, 2014 at 11:00 pm

    I used to help my younger brother. Although we don`t have a huge age difference, things are sometimes hard for him to learn.

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    • MrsC | Patricia Cuyugan says

      August 26, 2014 at 8:32 am

      Maybe it’s because they’re having to learn so much? It can be tough, yes.

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  8. Chin chin says

    August 25, 2014 at 10:17 pm

    I do tutor my kids. For the grade school, I think it’s not that different. But for my high school boys, their lessons are really advanced since they are enrolled in a science high school. Also, I always tell them how blessed they are for having the internet and information at the click of a mouse. Though, I think there are disadvantages to having that as well.

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    • MrsC | Patricia Cuyugan says

      August 26, 2014 at 8:32 am

      Yes, technology does have its ups and downs. Wow great job to your kids. I know how tough it can be in a science high school. I had friends who went to one, too.

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  9. Jay Mee says

    August 25, 2014 at 9:57 pm

    being a brother with 2 young sisters put me in a situation wherein all their assignments are my assignments as well. I also can’t help but compare the workload they have and to those I have back then. I remember when I was in grade school we used to cut pictures and paste them on bond paper and make a report out of it… now they are all presented in slide shows. the even have requirements such as computer assembly as early as grade 7 …

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    • MrsC | Patricia Cuyugan says

      August 26, 2014 at 8:35 am

      Oh my gosh I know exactly what you mean! My third grader has to create a photo collage on Picmonkey for his practical test in computer class. Wahh!

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  10. A Gracious Life says

    August 25, 2014 at 9:44 pm

    I assist my child in his schoolwork. One thing I have noticed, our curriculum here is quite advanced and fast -paced. If I use books or websites from the west, I have to go one grade level higher to access the topics for his current grade. I hope the k-12 program addresses that but I’m not so sure really.

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    • MrsC | Patricia Cuyugan says

      August 26, 2014 at 8:37 am

      Our school shifted to k-12, and you’re right, the curriculum is really a year advanced compared to what we learned before. In my son’s school, the students were all advanced a whole level ahead so instead of being grade 2 at 8 years old, he’s grade 3 at 8.

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  11. ceemee says

    August 25, 2014 at 7:58 pm

    I tutor my children and it does seem that their lessons are more difficult now. I don’t remember having that much homework before.

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    • MrsC | Patricia Cuyugan says

      August 25, 2014 at 9:20 pm

      I feel like their lessons are wayyy advance. But yun nga eh, my son is able to keep up. And we manage to have extracurricular activities. He isn’t burned out or overly stressed out over school. So I guess it’s not that bad?

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